
First I got a job. It was DAMN hard at first because it involves American money and even though I’ve been living here for almost three years never occurred to me to learn about money. Every time I bought something that cost like $ 8.50, I wouldn’t care if I have 50 cent, I’ll save my time by paying $ 10 and never really pay attention to change (I still took it of course but it went direct to my pocket).
However, with my new job, I MUST know about money. Not only that, I NEEDED to learn about checks too. I was so stressed out on my first days, it made me just want to focus on learning about money and everything job related and quite abandoned this blog.
Even though I worked for sometimes only 4 hours, I felt ache all over me, my body, mind and soul.
But that was then. Now, I don’t really have problems with all of that stuff. It’s true that once you keep doing the same thing everyday, it’ll becomes your habit and suddenly it wasn’t that hard anymore. I still needed help for certain things sometimes, but so far I don’t stress up anymore. I plan to stay there for a while.
My husband also get himself a new job. He still on training and it seemed he liked it very much, especially for the benefit that they offered. He even said that he probably will stay in this job forever!
To celebrate our new beginning in life, we went to see three movies that we’ve been delay in a while; Journey To The Center of the Earth, The Dark Knight and of course… Wall-E! I’ll write about those once I have time.
A week ago, I got letter from USCIS. They return my medical exam document because my doctor signed it on August 1st and apparently they have DIFFERENT form starting that day so I NEEDED to go back to doctor and ask him to rewrite the document. It basically just copy from the old to the new one.
I wasn’t that exited to see the doctor because he has been such a pain in the ass.
The reason we (my husband and I) saw him at the first place because he charge cheaper than other doctor, although probably only $ 5-10 cheaper.
We went there for the first time I think around a year ago. He is a Hispanic guy who seemed doesn’t really know English that well. I usually don’t mind as long as you nice. I myself still have difficulties communicating in this language, so why judge others?
The problem is he was so rude and just getting on our nerves. He didn’t listen to what you have to say and even when you actually agree to what he told you, he would yell, “You’re NOT listening!”
At that point all we want was to get all things done as quick as possible so we don’t need to see him anymore. Unfortunately when we first sent the document, the USCIS CHANGED the cost from 400 to more than 1000. So, we had to delay.
When we got the money, we sent the document back. Then I got mail from USCIS for my green card interview. Everything seemed work so well, except for some reason our doctor wrote that “I don’t meet the vaccination requirement”. We asked the woman who interviewed us why he wrote such thing and she said she didn’t know the reason and the only way to find out was to see him again and asked him to change it.
We went to see him then he explained everything which of course seemed to us sound like a foreign language, so when we asked question he’ll said, “YOU’RE NOT LISTENING!”
It turned out that I need to get Varicella vaccine and since my HIV test already expired I need to get new one. The doctor said he won’t charge us too much this time.
Days before I went to get the vaccine, we called him to ask how much he want to charge us and he said $ 60.
When we saw him again he completely forgot on what he said on the phone. He ended up charge us $ 100. At this point, we just want to get everything done as soon as possible so we don’t have to deal with him anymore. So, yes we paid him $100
A week ago, another letter from USCIS came. Seemed that we need to SEE that stupid doctor again. With a speaker phone on, my husband called him and mentioned about OUR situation, that we need him to rewrite the document and such…
The doctor kept interrupting by saying, “Didn’t I told you that before? I did tell you that before, right”. We’re pretty clear that he never told us that thing before, but there isn’t any point to tell him because he’ll dominate the conversation and like I mentioned before won’t listen to what you have to say.
And, of course when my husband said something, he again would said, “YOU’RE NOT LISTENING!”. So, then my husband just asked how much we need to pay him this time. He said, not much just $30.
My husband asked when I can see him, he then paused a bit (probably checking his computer). He said that he didn’t have his assistant with him so he need to do the scheduling by himself. He said, what about Tuesday at 9 am? My husband agreed and hung up the phone.
On Tuesday, I woke up early so I can go to the bank and cash some money. I took around $ 100 (5 bills of twenties). So I went to get a drink so I can get 10 dollar bill. My plan is to keep the rest in my hiding pocket inside my bag and only prepare $ 30 (one bill of 20 and one bill of 10) in the front pocket. So, when he tried to charge me more then I’ll show him that’s the only money I have. Although, I kinda ready to pay him more just in case.
So, I went to his office, open the door and went inside. I didn’t see anyone there but I could hear him talking (although it’s more like a yelling) to his assistant. From the way he talked to her seemed she still on training. When they came out, I didn’t recognize the assistant, so I was right that this one is still new. I just realized that every time we went there he always had different assistant. I seemed to know why now.
When he saw me he seemed surprise. He asked who was I and I explain about the document that he needed to rewrite. He seemed to remember me now and then asked me to hand it. “Next time make appointment first, like you see I am in the middle of something.”
I didn’t even realize what he said until he disappear from my sight. What? Make appointment first? I DID!
Few minutes later he comes back and started rewriting the document. He said that I am lucky that the woman he should meet today seemed late. I didn’t respond although I really wanted to. From the way he handle things, he seemed like a very impatient (and not that bright either) person. so I decided not to interrupt him because I don’t want to cause him making any more mistake in my form.
By the end, he charged me only $ 30, just like he said. I was relieved.
I also got another mail from USCIS that told me they will send my permanent resident card (green card) in three weeks and it won’t expired for 10 years! I was pretty surprised because I heard some people first green card usually only last for two years then they will get another one that last for 10 years. Although then I get another letter which said that they still need to wait my OTHER medical document before they can process that.
So, soon I am gonna head off to post office and mail that stuff. I might also go to the library and sign up for a card. I’ve been reading lately the last two books I read is Life With My Sister Madonna (I always like reading memoir) and a fiction novel by Haruki Murakami called Sputnik Sweetheart. I won’t really recommend anyone to read the memoir about how Madonna’s brother tell bad stuff about his sister but I definitely recommend the other one.
Oh, I just hate the fact that Half Blood Prince has to be delayed for… more than a year!!! I was so looking forward to it. I guess I always like to have something to look forward and hate it when they took it away when it’s closer to you.
Soon, Law and Order:CI will be on it’s season finale and don’t know when it will be on again. Chris Noth left comes Jeff Goldblum. Glad that D’onfrio and Erbe still around though especially since their episode are the ones that I watched mostly.
I also get myself three new shirts, one shoes (for work purpose) and a cool bag. Well, it’s fun to finally be able to spend money from your own hard work. Soon, we gonna start saving especially for our Indonesian trip.